Movie: Anna and the King

Our class watched Anna and the King (1999) for one of our sessions about Thailand.

Anna Leonowens is an Englishwoman who travels to Siam to teach the eldest son of Mongkut, King of Siam. At first, she insists on having her way. She doesn't follow the customs and etiquette of Siam, but as she spends more time with the children, she begins to see Siam has its own way of doing things.

Throughout the film, we see glimpses of Thailand's rich culture, along with its etiquette and customs, the expecations and roles of men and women, rich and poor, slaves and freefolk. Women are not allowed to stand in the presence of men, which is why, during their first meeting, the Prime Minister of Siam addresses Anna as "Sir." When the king comes into view, everyone must bow, as they have the belief that "no head must be higher than the king's."

When the king finds out that one of his concubines, Tuptim, is in love with another man and has run away to the Buddhist temple to be with him, he orders the execution of both Tuptim and her lover.

At first, Anna does not understand. She fights for justice, even going against the king's orders sometimes. But as her stay lengthens, she begins to see and understand.

Can You Live in Laos?

The people of Laos are quiet and conservative, yet very hospitable and friendly. Etiquette in Laos includes the following:

• No public display of affection (no holding hands, no kissing, no hugging in public)
• No "revealing" outfits
• Remove your shoes upon entering a house
• Don't touch someone on the head, even children
  
• Don't use your feet to point at something; don't raise them higher than the floor
• Don't point, use your palm
• When greeting someone, put your hands together and slightly bow your head

Filipinos and Laotians have somewhat similar rules with regards to etiquette and proper behavior. Friendliness, hospitality, respect—these are traits that are common in both countries.

One thing I really like about the people of Laos is the way they deal with problems. Laotians are peaceful people. According to a website:

Laotians take great pride in keeping a cool head in any situation. You will inevitably encounter a frustrating moment during your travels due to communication barriers, social customs or the heat. Getting angry only makes things worse; relax and deal with things calmly. Laos moves at a glacial pace, so leave your impatience at home. Fortunately, Laotians are very tolerant people, so even if you make a major social mistake, a wai and a apology will smooth things over.